Frequently Asked Questions Answered

What if I feel embarrassed to even ask if they’re real?

You’re not alone — and you’re not foolish. Scammers specialize in targeting smart, emotionally open people. Asking if someone is real isn’t paranoid — it’s powerful. Our tools let you check quietly, confidently, and without judgment.

How do I check if their voice note or video is AI-generated?

Our AI detection tool runs submitted clips through multiple authenticity models, including voice clone and deepfake detection. If their “I miss you” sounds robotic or scripted, we’ll help you find out — fast.

What if I already sent money? Can you still help?

Yes. Our system gives you next steps for documenting the scam, protecting your accounts, and rebuilding trust with yourself. You’re not stupid — you were targeted by professionals. We’re here to help.

What is “pig butchering” in crypto dating scams?

It’s a manipulative scam where a scammer builds a fake relationship, fattens the trust, then pressures you into fake crypto “investments.” Emotional grooming is part of the con.

Why won’t he get on a video call with me?

Common excuses like “camera’s broken” or “I’m on a secure military base” can be classic scam signals. Real people with real intentions don’t avoid eye contact or proof of life.

Can AI really fake a boyfriend?

Yes — scammers are now using deepfake video, cloned voice notes, and stolen photos to build highly convincing personas. Our tool helps you run a video or voice clip through multiple AI authenticity checks.

How can I tell if my online boyfriend is real or a scammer?

Watch for red flags like avoiding video calls, vague life details, urgent financial requests, and AI-generated photos. Our “Realness Check” quiz helps you assess their trust score fast.

Is this guaranteed?

At this time, this is a personal project run by one real woman — not a big company or automated AI tool.

I’m a single mom of two amazing little humans, doing my best to help other women avoid the kind of scams that nearly broke me. I can’t guarantee results — scams are evolving fast — but I can promise to look at your situation with empathy, experience, and everything I’ve learned the hard way.

Your submission will be reviewed with care, and I’ll provide a report based on current patterns, tools, and red flag detection.

Thanks for trusting me with your story. You’re not alone.

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